This is ONE step I took to call in the man of my dreams. You get to create your own manifestation ritual and you can use this as a guide. Who is the The Man I Desire? He’s someone I can trust to open me further to my own depths and while deepening his own inner … Continue reading One Thing I Did to Manifest My Beloved.
As we are moving into this New Moon, I'm reflecting on opportunities for new growth, self love, accepting responsibility, and the life I've designed. In this, I begin to see barriers that are standing in my way of me feeling fully embodied, empowered and in my place of wisdom and truth. Feminine Sexuality Feminine … Continue reading Full Moon: Healing the Feminine
Being a stripper in the clubs, I've been gifted the opportunity to hold space for strangers as they process emotions that include pain, grief, sorrow, despair, guilt, shame, sadness that expresses in a variety of ways. The most important thing is that I listen. I listen with compassion and without the intent to resolve their … Continue reading On the Job Training: Transferrable Skills
Causing Trauma I take extreme responsibility for my life. Although other people are part of this experience, I take charge in what it is that I have power to do and say. Working in the strip club has allowed me the opportunity to do the work to find healing and empowerment. This idea of causing … Continue reading Concomitant Trauma At Work
What does it mean to feminine? Socially constructed feminine image destroys true passion.
Going into dancing, I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew, but really, I didn’t. I let outside events frustrate me, hurt me, and ultimately change me. Now, every day I focus on being me. The me that I know to be true. 1. Loving and supportive 2. Sensitive/empathetic towards others 3. Compassionate … Continue reading 10 Important Inclinations
From the age of 9, I can remember being looked at as a sexual creature. I was hit on by older men, assuming I was at least 18. Cat calls bombarded me as I'd walk down the street in my saggy pants and beanie-chosen to avoid the hoots and hollers. When I was 12 years old, I … Continue reading Universal Truth
It’s so wild going back and reading my old blogs and seeing how much I’ve changed. Knowing where I was mentally in that moment writing those words; living in a wavering place of comparison, fear, and confusion. I’m so grateful for the process I’ve gone through to bring me to this very moment of clarity … Continue reading Freedom
Is it my purpose to awaken others through this realm of sexuality? This has been my experience that I cannot deny because it has been my existence. I have been offering space to men for their healing journeys through my time with them in the clubs. I have offered loving kindness and have found deep … Continue reading Purpose is Pleasure
For years I have owned the "other's" image of myself that I have created. I'm recognizing more fully how much I actually judge myself. In this conversation with sex and my desire to fully acknowledge my trauma that revolves around it to fully embody a true nurturing human that has tended to her wounds, I … Continue reading The Sexist In Me Is The Sexist In You