Being a stripper in the clubs, I've been gifted the opportunity to hold space for strangers as they process emotions that include pain, grief, sorrow, despair, guilt, shame, sadness that expresses in a variety of ways. The most important thing is that I listen. I listen with compassion and without the intent to resolve their [...]
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Life is a Dance
Every movement, every action, every pause, is a segment of the whole piece. The choreography is seamlessly woven together, purposefully, whether it is perceived as fluid or disconnected. It is done with passion. Intention. Connecting with my breath as I take each new step. Allowing my eyes to gaze upon another as they participate in [...]
The Frequency of Love
I'm in the place of awareness of old patterns and have the beautiful opportunity to begin anew. I've been here before. Declaring I see myself. Declaring I see my patterns and truth. I stir with anxiousness, unwilling at first to look at whats poking me in the back. Finally, I choose to sit with it. [...]
10 Important Inclinations
Going into dancing, I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew, but really, I didn’t. I let outside events frustrate me, hurt me, and ultimately change me. Now, every day I focus on being me. The me that I know to be true. 1. Loving and supportive 2. Sensitive/empathetic towards others 3. Compassionate [...]
Come out, Come out, Wherever You Are!
Coming out of the dark. Revealing herself through the shadows. Entering into the mystery she has created. Becoming who she imagined. The person of her dreams. She sees herself. She knows this person well, For she has been there all along. Now standing tall, standing proud. Standing to be witnessed in bright light of the day. [...]
Universal Truth
From the age of 9, I can remember being looked at as a sexual creature. I was hit on by older men, assuming I was at least 18. Cat calls bombarded me as I'd walk down the street in my saggy pants and beanie-chosen to avoid the hoots and hollers. When I was 12 years old, I [...]
Boundaries Made With Love
I began a practice of my sexual evolution that involves touch without sexual intent with the intention of balancing out the mental and physiological urges I feel. I've been inundated with sexual touch, I'm ready to explore more. Touch is healthy. Touch is good. This is my practice of boundaries that will allow me to [...]
Authentic Relating
Being in a state of authenticity in the club and being responsible for my feelings, and my feelings alone, has allowed me to remove the shackles of shame even further. I’m sinking into a place where pleasure is allowed to exist without guilt and worry that someone else will disapprove. Witnessing myself play and be [...]
Healing My Inner Masculine Part 2
Looking at all my relationships up until this point in my life, I’m left recognizing patterns and seeing where I’ve made dramatic shifts when new people come into my life. I see the work I’ve been doing, but how is this moment any different than the past? I feel like my life is more full [...]
Healing My Inner Masculine Part 1
Healing men wounds... Healing my inner masculine... Do not look outside of yourself to heal the masculine. Look at your wounded little girl. Where does she hurt. She was separated from her father at a young age. She returned to him during a time of confusion. He was absent to her pain and had to [...]
Ecstatic Soul Stripper 