Convergence: Coming together of two seemingly separate ideas, concepts, or entities. I've been a witness to this process as it has been an intention of mine. The amount of challenge has been plenty. Yet through the pain and the tears, I see a glimmer of light and my faith in the process. Loving myself through [...]
Category: Self Care
What is Monogamy?
I was raised by a divorced Mother and Father who separated shortly after I was born. I lived with my Mom and siblings on both coasts of the U.S, while my Father continued traveling the world, finally settling down in one place when my Mother could no longer look after her three children after a [...]
Redefining Love
Love used to be all consuming. Chaotic and unpredictable. Pain was inevitable. Heartbreak was common. Love was dependent on the other to return that love. Being in love meant being lost, having fallen so far from myself. Being in love meant losing touch with my wholeness and becoming one with another. Being in love meant [...]
Just Be
To be is to exist. To be anything else is a lie. In this more than human world, I am expressing as a human form and I see this as an opportunity to live in opportunity and joy. Being more than I am is a mask upon my brilliance. To be more is to create [...]
Romantic Love Partnership
I'm asking myself some questions, some I have answers to and some I do not: What does a romantic love partnership mean to me? Intimate, sexual, supportive, safe, loving, and joyful experiences. Can I have multiple romantic partners? I know the answer to this one is YES. Navigating it is another question. I feel like having [...]
My Vulnerability Is Not An Invitation
The more I expose myself and my process, the more I get people thinking I need help. What a moment to shine in my truth; to express my love and strength. I'm offering the wisdom of my process as a gift to others so they may find healing within and also gifting them connection to know [...]
Reclaiming Sexual Power
Power Leak A power leak is when there is no focus in the action, thoughts and behaviors. When the cycle of energetic exchange is blocked and nothing beneficial is received in return for the giving of energy. It is a drain on the resource and as humans, we literally have to continue replenishing it [...]
Full Moon: Healing the Feminine
As we are moving into this New Moon, I'm reflecting on opportunities for new growth, self love, accepting responsibility, and the life I've designed. In this, I begin to see barriers that are standing in my way of me feeling fully embodied, empowered and in my place of wisdom and truth. Feminine Sexuality Feminine [...]
The Gift of Time
Being a stripper has allowed me so much space and time to nurture my Body, Mind, and Soul. I've been given the gift of time. It is plentiful. There is a continuous stream of opportunity and possibility to do what brings me joy. To be a witness to my emotions and recognize where they come [...]
10 Important Inclinations
Going into dancing, I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew, but really, I didn’t. I let outside events frustrate me, hurt me, and ultimately change me. Now, every day I focus on being me. The me that I know to be true. 1. Loving and supportive 2. Sensitive/empathetic towards others 3. Compassionate [...]
Ecstatic Soul Stripper 