The Pleasure Is All Mine

I bask in the glorious tickling feeling of crispy dollars falling onto the small of my back, slipping down the crack of my ass and caressing my inner thighs as I move my hips up and down shaking what my Mamma and Daddy gave me. I receive looks of adoration, admiration, and complete desire, entrancing … Continue reading The Pleasure Is All Mine

Reclaiming Sexual Power

  Power Leak A power leak is when there is no focus in the action, thoughts and behaviors. When the cycle of energetic exchange is blocked and nothing beneficial is received in return for the giving of energy. It is a drain on the resource and as humans, we literally have to continue replenishing it … Continue reading Reclaiming Sexual Power

Full Moon: Healing the Feminine

As we are moving into this New Moon, I'm reflecting on opportunities for new growth, self love, accepting responsibility, and the life I've designed. In this, I begin to see barriers that are standing in my way of me feeling fully embodied, empowered and in my place of wisdom and truth.   Feminine Sexuality Feminine … Continue reading Full Moon: Healing the Feminine

The Gift of Time

Being a stripper has allowed me so much space and time to nurture my Body, Mind, and Soul. I've been given the gift of time. It is plentiful. There is a continuous stream of opportunity and possibility to do what brings me joy. To be a witness to my emotions and recognize where they come … Continue reading The Gift of Time

On the Job Training: Transferrable Skills

Being a stripper in the clubs, I've been gifted the opportunity to hold space for strangers as they process emotions that include pain, grief, sorrow, despair, guilt, shame, sadness that expresses in a variety of ways. The most important thing is that I listen. I listen with compassion and without the intent to resolve their … Continue reading On the Job Training: Transferrable Skills

Life is a Dance

Every movement, every action, every pause, is a segment of the whole piece. The choreography is seamlessly woven together, purposefully, whether it is perceived as fluid or disconnected. It is done with passion. Intention. Connecting with my breath as I take each new step. Allowing my eyes to gaze upon another as they participate in … Continue reading Life is a Dance

Concomitant Trauma At Work

Causing Trauma I take extreme responsibility for my life. Although other people are part of this experience, I take charge in what it is that I have power to do and say. Working in the strip club has allowed me the opportunity to do the work to find healing and empowerment. This idea of causing … Continue reading Concomitant Trauma At Work

10 Important Inclinations

Going into dancing, I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew, but really, I didn’t. I let outside events frustrate me, hurt me, and ultimately change me. Now, every day I focus on being me. The me that I know to be true.  1. Loving and supportive 2. Sensitive/empathetic towards others 3. Compassionate … Continue reading 10 Important Inclinations