Stripper Tip #10

BE A FLIRT Flirting is the beginning of the art of seduction. Flirting is a playful way to charge up your magnetism. And simultaneously charge the space between you and potential customers. Flirting creates a strong attraction and desire. When I say be a flirt, I don't mean for you to really do anything for [...]

Stripper Tip #9

YOU'VE GOT THE POWER The customer is not in charge and they certainly aren't always right. They may have the money, but YOU have all the power. Don't give your power away thinking you have to get money from the customers. You're not only doing the customers a disservice you're short changing yourself. Customers walk [...]

Stripper Tip #8

FOLLOW YOUR YES Don't ever compromise your wellbeing for money. The energetics of dishonoring your true desires is not worth the money you can make. You won't be dancing forever and the one thing you want to leave with is money and the other is honor. Honor for a job done in integrity with your [...]

Stripper Tip #3

LOVE YOUR BODY Dancing is a physically demanding job. Standard dress code includes shoes. You know what I'm talking about. Platforms. No one dictates high they are, but usually club managers that do the hiring will have a preference. Now it's no necessarily how high the heel is that makes wearing them taxing, it's the [...]

Expressing The Unsaid

In sexual relationships, much can go unsaid between two people.   The pain the fear, the unworthiness conversations can keep people separate from each other. Those feelings breed disconnection and dissatisfaction.   While one partner can be happy the other can be in complete despair and tormented by their partners’ very existence.   The lessons [...]

The Time is Now.

I want my story to be told. I want to expose my past to myself and to the world. I feel like that's the way to freedom. That's they way to true acceptance and courage. I must share my story with the world so that others may learn from my experience and won't suffer any [...]